A few months before moving to New York, my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer. But this story isn’t about my Read More

When I woke up on my last birthday, James was already up, doing yoga (or meditating? Or do you meditate while you Read More

Last week, my gender-fluid friend Ridley invited me to The Phluid Project’s One-Year Anniversary. The Phluid Project, on the corner of Read More

For my birthday in February, my photographer Steve Brennan gave me a gift card to Coach. Anyone who knows me knows that Read More

A month away from my one-year anniversary with James, I’ve been reflecting a lot about my dating life over the last Read More

(Don’t Let the Waves Let You Drown) After spilling wine on Billy, I figured our time was up. But he persisted. Read More

(Don’t Let the Stars Get You Down) Before dating James, I had a brief fling with someone I found on Instagram. Read More

There comes a time in every young top’s life when he realizes that, maybe, he’s been a bottom all along. Read More

Last week was my 29th birthday. I used to love birthdays. When I was a kid, birthdays were always special. My grandparents, Read More