A few years ago, Google Guy messaged me on Grindr. His name is pretty self-explanatory: He worked at Google. I worked at Read More

The first week post-breakup is always the hardest. I was sad. I didn’t miss him, I didn’t have any illusions Read More

It’s 3 a.m., and I can’t sleep. So I write. Last night, I was late meeting my boyfriend. I’m Read More

The first month living with The Ex Fiance was, at best, strained. We fought about everything: what furniture to buy, where to Read More

Last month, I went to a book release party for my friend Billy Merrell. His new book is called “Vanilla.” Through poetry, Read More

A few months ago, I wrote about Butch Cordora, a Texas Hold ‘Em dealer from Philly who’s brought the game into Read More

A few weeks ago, Southern Belle C invited me to the premiere of “Cruel Intentions: The Musical” at (Le) Poisson Rouge. “Cruel Read More

On New Year’s Eve, a haze casts over the city, everything looking a little different, more romantic. It’s during special Read More

I dropped in on N every now and then to see how things were going. Most of my trans friends transitioned before Read More

Growing up, I wasn’t bullied much. I know: effeminate me, growing up in small town Iowa. Sure, there was some taunting; Read More