A few weeks ago, Southern Belle C invited me to the premiere of “Cruel Intentions: The Musical” at (Le) Poisson Rouge. “Cruel Read More

On New Year’s Eve, a haze casts over the city, everything looking a little different, more romantic. It’s during special Read More

I dropped in on N every now and then to see how things were going. Most of my trans friends transitioned before Read More

Growing up, I wasn’t bullied much. I know: effeminate me, growing up in small town Iowa. Sure, there was some taunting; Read More

The same week I ate bodega pumpkin pie on Thanksgiving (re: last week’s column), I was lucky enough to be on Read More

Last year, I decided to stay in New York for Thanksgiving with my boyfriend. I’m from Iowa, so going home can Read More

I’ve written about Sleeping Beauty before—called so because, after inviting me over to his place at 1 a.m., he fell Read More

I wish that my story with G was different. I wish that he had never contracted HIV, never had to deal with Read More

I couldn’t stop thinking about G. I knew I fucked up. G was so handsome, and so funny, and so smart – Read More